Dating · Friends

That’s what he said

Last night, after a week apart, I had a long-overdue reunion.  Of course I’m talking about wine. A friend and I polished off a bottle of sparkling merlot (yes, that is a thing that exists), and had an impromptu wine tasting of all the delicious half-finished bottles in my fridge because I’m classy like that. I’m…… Continue reading That’s what he said

Dating · Friends

One door closes …

So perhaps I oversold the ease with which I can transition from the warm and fuzzies to ‘Hey buddy!’ I think my last post put more of an, ‘I’m fine, you’re fine, we’re all fine,’ spin on things than I’m feeling today. When something comes to an end, it still sucks. Full stop. Even if…… Continue reading One door closes …

Dating · Friends

You can’t make an omelette …

Well, I’ve written and deleted about five versions of this post in the past 20 minutes, so I might as well just cut the shit and get right to it: things didn’t work out with JB. We had possibly the most civilized conversation ever that started with the words, ‘I need to talk to you about…… Continue reading You can’t make an omelette …

Friends · Life

Let’s talk

A dear friend of mine is writing this blog anonymously because she doesn’t want — or need — your pity. She does, however, have powerful words and feelings to add to an important conversation currently happening in our corner of the world. She and I had the talk that I’ve had with all my female friends at…… Continue reading Let’s talk

Dating · Friends

Keep your friends close

After much cajoling, I have finally convinced my good friend Sachin to write some guest posts for me. As a bit of background, I’ve known Sach since first year university, and he is an avid reader/frequent nagger when he feels I’m not posting enough. He is going to be writing a series of posts for…… Continue reading Keep your friends close