Dating · Life

Choose your choices

I admit: I have a few bad habits — and no, I’m not talking about my affinity for drinking and swearing. I quite like those habits, thankyouverymuch. I’ve been giving some thought lately to one such habit in particular, and the way it has bled into all different aspects of my life: I can be a bit indecisive. We…… Continue reading Choose your choices

Dating · Friends · Life

Don’t Steph believing

I could not make this up if I tried. Life is funny sometimes; other times it is just so weird that your choices are to laugh or cry. I (usually) choose the former. I spent the last couple of days in my hometown celebrating my little sister’s graduation/contemplating my own future scholarly endeavours (I’m going…… Continue reading Don’t Steph believing

Dating · Life

Expectation versus reality

Since I’m not out there in the shitshow Toronto dating scene, you’re going to have to deal with me navigating this brave new world. I have no idea what I’m doing, and I’m most likely going to get lost (there isn’t a Google Maps for relating to other people, is there)? Don’t say I didn’t warn…… Continue reading Expectation versus reality

Dating · Life

Anything you can do, I can do better

I know y’all are legitimately happy for me when I find a nice guy, but let’s be honest: you come here for the dating trainwrecks. Although I love entertaining the masses (or the 10 friends and my mom who actually read this), I deleted the last of my online dating profiles last week. As much fun as the ‘nope, nope,…… Continue reading Anything you can do, I can do better

Dating · Life

Disaster relief

Self-deprecation is totally my jam. It’s comfortable for me to joke about pratfalling through life, making fun of my adventures in the kitchen, and ridiculous dating escapades to the delight of those around me. I’ve never given it much thought in a dating context, mostly because calling myself a shitshow has not only been accepted in the…… Continue reading Disaster relief